Thursday, April 21, 2011

Desperate for love????

I was just wondering is that true that every singles especially girls are desperate for love…recently I heard from my friends that they want to have a date; they want love; they want somebody to care for them…

I was shock at that moment because there was also one time when I had this kind of thought but soon this thought fade…so out of sudden my friends asking me for advice…hahaha…I also do not know how to advise them…what I can do is to tell them how to handle this kind of thought…hahaha…

I know how this thought came…it is because of the surrounding…when most of your friends have at least experienced what love is, courtship and dating stage…so of course you who remain singles since the day you born will feel sad, lonely and maybe jealous towards them…all those questions will pop up in your mind; Why I can’t be like my friends to have a date? Why are there no guys who like me? When will I meet my prince charming? When you cannot find the answer then you will look for somebody to give you the answers…of course I did advise my friends as how I had advise myself…hahaha…

My friend told me that it is because of her looks or her body that make her still single but this is not true…obviously it is a false statement…it is fate and destiny that control everything…of course everything is in God’s hand…you cannot rush in finding your true love…

There are people who asking me how is the feeling of falling in love? Hahaha…can you, my friends who have fall in love before answer this question… I had once asked one of my friends who is so deeply in love on this questions…guess what’s her answer? She told me that she do not know how to answer…so how do you expect me to answer when I have zero experience in love…hahaha…I can just briefly told how is it based on what have been told by love dramas…I am still wonder is that really true when you fall in love with someone, you feel heart beating extremely fast when talking to that person…hahaha…I guess there will be still some time for me to really find out the answer…

For my friends, I look like a love expert but the truth is I never involved in any relationship…hahaha…that is just so funny…one of my wise friend told me about something that I start to realize and agree with him…he said that hardly a woman will be able to find her true love with just first love; a woman can only find her true love is after 2 to 5 times of involving herself in a relationship; women learn to become more clever to choose their ideal partner with every break up but the MOST WISE woman is those who are still single but have listens lots of stories from her friends who always in a relationship…^_^

8 comments:

-xiaogongzhu- said...

Ahahaha!! Yaya!! It's kinda true...I remembered before that my heart would beat real fast when the person I liked is standing just in front of me...and you'd get tongue-tied when you are talking to him...Well, I might not know if others felt the same way as I do, but...that's just the way that I felt. And you'd be thinking of that person non-stop..Or at least, when you're too free to think of something, then the person's face and everything will just pop out of your head..And you'll talk about him often to your close friends and family...:)Omg omg omg...What am I talking about, Sherlyn?:P

JuAnneBeLLa said...

im desperate too..i know you knew it serena!!give me love!!!

†A9gie† said...

One advice is that, never rush into relationship just cos u wana be in love. Cos the person might not cherish you and in the end, u hurt urself. Just wait for the right one, who you think he is worth it. But if world ends at 2012, then cincai la..haha LOl. Falling in love, what Sherlyn felt, never really occured to me. You just get excited when ur talking to him, happy and carefree. LOL hahahhaaa....so much of opinion ^^

JuAnneBeLLa said...

wow..must listen to the pro's advice!!
i guess im wrong all these time, i thought love should be rollercoster everyday.. perhaps love should be like the 'mao mao chong' in genting..slow and steady!!

S3r3n@ said...

to sherlyn...love might look like a fairytale...hahaha...u r the 1st person who tel me that you will feel heartbeat faster when facing the one you love...hahaha...

poh juan...recently u fatt hou hor...always ask 4 love...i tin u r the most desperate 1...hahaha...i have giv u enuf love d...dun ask for more...hahaha...

agnes...wah now u mean 2012 is the end of the world izit...u confirm? if yes then i better quick find 1 d...hahaha...u oso better quick married n hv baby before the 2012 comes...hahahaha...

†A9gie† said...

Hahaha, ahem, having kids was not in my plan. i tot u shud knw that ( unless condom bocor la LOL hahahahhaa) but does world reli end mea..nobody knws..just have fun lo.hahhaha... ^^who is ur fren serena. that day i saw her that wan? sory, forgot her name ==

S3r3n@ said...

hahaha...agnes...ok then i jz hope condom bocor lo...hahaha...ya is tat girl but she telling me now that she feel better d...no longer have that thought...hahaha...

JuAnneBeLLa said...

not enough not enough..
un-enough-able!!