Kindness..

"Do not underestimate a moment of your kindness. 

It has the power to change lives in way you may never know."

                                                       

Recently, 

I think of you a lot, mum..

I recalled the times when your friends described you as a kind person..

I knew how you want to help people within your capabilities..

You never really teach me how to be kind..

"Behave yourself!"

That is the only sentence I heard from you always..=D

I do not know when kindness plays an important part in my life..

I am learning to practice kindness as an act of love..

Sometimes, I know I am just being nice instead of kind..

There is a profound meaning between being kind and being nice..

Most people are just being nice but not being kind..

Being nice means behaving courteously and politely so that our behaviour is pleasing or agreeable to others..

Being kind is based on wisdom and without needing to please anyone, including yourself..

To be kind, we need to be bold, daringly bold.

True kindness comes with discernment.

It is inclusive: within and without.

It is all embracing.

It is without limits.

Don't Be Nice, Be Kind! =)

I had Stopped..

"Stop the chase. 

Realize that just because something is hard to get, 

doesn't mean it is worth the effort. 

No one is worth running after. 

It is better to find someone who will meet you in the middle."

                                                                

I decided to find people out when I feel lonely..

I decided to watch series of movies just to kill my lonely time..

I decided to chat with strangers through dating apps because I feel lonely..

Every time you play dating apps, 

You are actually feeding to your loneliness..

You are trying to ignore the fact that you are lonely..

You are wasting your time chatting with people whom you clearly know is of no point..

I agreed human beings need companion in life..

Through dating apps, 

You get to know new people..

You chat with them..

You hang out with them..

Then..

The cycle will repeat with new people..

After a while, I find this exhausting and making me feel worse on my loneliness..

The moment when I decided not to keep distracting myself 

because I feel lonely, I knew I grew again..

Instead of wasting my time, 

its time for me to look at a different perspective.. 

At least I have the real courage now to face my loneliness..=)