Tuesday, December 14, 2010

My opinion...

I am back again to have some words for my blog...something which i very long ago want to say it out...do not think that it is something secret or happy things to share...it is somehow not a very good thing about women of these days...i heard from aunt, friends, my mum and my mum's friends...even i, myself also realise this situation...

"MOSTLY NOWADAYS WOMEN ARE JUST BEING SO LAZY"

First of all, i got no intention to offence anyone...maybe some of you will think that this statement is wrong so everything is up to you all to see this matter...an example to prove this statement is women lazy to do house works...i do not mean those heavy housework like wash clothes with your hand, cooking, mop the floor with ur hand...what i mean is just simple household chores like sweep the floor, hang clothes, fold clothes, wash plates ad many more...some of them just being so selfish to just only wash her plates, cook also only cook for herself...i hate this kind of women...

That is why majority of the aunt said "nowadays daughter-in-law are just so "xin fu/ho mia", no need to do housework, no need to cook, wake up late, some even no need to take care of their child...not like them last time when they just married, they have to wake up early morning to prepare food for the family, by evening must finish cleaning up the house, waiting husband home"...i heard this almost 4 to 5 times ...hahahaha...

i do feel pity for those aunt but what they said are indeed true...i saw this before...i think this is the effect of women receive education and lack of parental care too...i will not say thess are the main cause but it do make sense to be one of the cause for women being lazy...when women receive education, some of them feel that they are smart so they will not do household chores which they feel is a waste of time...some is because parents never ask their daughter to learn how to do those household chores...nowadays parents too pampered their children..they are over protective about their child safety...that is why some teenager almost going to adult life and yet still do not know how to cook instant noodle and even fried egg...

Some of my friends told me that the guys should also help to do household chores, why must only girls to do all this while the guy can shake their legs, sit down on the sofa and watch movies...this is not fair...hahaha...i can only agree partially about what my friends suggest...anyhow all depends on both guy n girl...an example, a couple who live to together, if both of them also being so lazy to do house works then who is going to clean the house...maybe you all will think that i show bias but i do agree that i am slightly a traditional woman...unless the guy can show me that he can did house works better than women, then i will have no opinion on women being lazy at home...

P/S-i would like to apologize if it did offence you but this will only prove that you are belong to this kind of person...i do hope that women can be smart in the meantime being hardworking and responsible to their own family...^_^

1 comment:

Jun said...

i agree!!!! so agree!!! =)
although i dont know how to cook, but still i do house chores. hahhaa.
but now, my cooking skills is getting better. =)